13. At Pagodas & Temples
No need to be shy
After reading guide books on other Asian countries like Thailand or China, travelers enter Vietnamese temples with apprehension. What should we door not do? What are these customs about not touching the head of children and not pointing the feet?
Well. Relax. You will find Vietnamese much more pragmatic and lenient in their daily life…including their conduct at temples and pagodas.
But first, a few obvious no-nos.
DON’T go temples dressed as if you just walk off the beach. There is no special dress code other then to avoid obviously disrespectful attire” swimsuits, skimpy or torn T-shirts, head-turning shorts or low-cut blouses.
DON’T keep your shoes on if every one else is taking them off. Rules vary from one temple to the next, just check for the presence of shoes and sandals on the front porch.
DON’T should or otherwise disturb the tranquility of the premise.
In traditional Buddhist temples, found mostly in Central and Souhth Vietnam, there are few additional rules.
DON’T touch minks if you are women.
DON’T pat the children’s heads
As well as point with your feet.
Apart from the ebove, you can just about be yourself…as long as you are a rather respectful self!
But the best rule of all remains: DO observe the locals to know what’s OK and what’s not.
Taking pictures
Inmost temple and pagodas you will be allowed to take pictures. Yet, in some Buddhist temples, taking pictures of certain Buddha statues is not allowed.
Asking before clicking is always respectful. No need to know the local language…simply show your camera and the object you would like to photograph.
Doing it the Vietnamese way
Trips to the countryside are always accompanied by a short visit to nearby temples.
Buy joss sticks, paper money or flowers at the entrance of the premises. Plant the lighted joss sticks in the vases placed for that purposes. Vietnamese like to disperse the sticks into as many vases as available…all deities should be thus honored. In front of any statue, preferably one of which you might know the background, hold your hands together at chest level; and pray. Prayers are in the form of polite requests: for heath, success, money or whatever you need in your life at the present moment. Bow your head slightly and make space for the next visitor.